Teenagers aren't normal. But I have been a teenager just a few years and I think I know what you're going through. You feel like you need to have a personality make over and be amazing, well its easy just be super confident but be yourself. Talk to people, argue with your parents, and LOVE A LOT. HAAHAHA. While doing all of this and basicaly enjoying your life stress-free remember" your unique just like everybody else." So take care, and just do WHATEVER U WANT. The kids that think they are abnormal are actually the ones that are absolutely normal. Don;t get bossed around and just live life with no limits. hahah, advicee, how to lost 20 pounds ASAP? ;) Best Wishes!